CCSO
- Name: Bartrum Tosha M.
- Charge: AGGRAVATED CHILD ABUSE
- Residence: Naples
- Age: 20
COLLIER COUNTY A frustrated teenage mother who threw a bottle of formula at her 6-month-old baby’s head, shook her as she sat in her car seat, then tossed her on a bed was sentenced Tuesday to 10 years in a state prison followed by a decade of probation.
Collier Circuit Judge Fred Hardt imposed the term on Tosha M. Bartrum, now 20, of Manchester Drive, after a roughly 2 1/2-hour hearing in which Assistant State Attorney Lisa Mead sought 10 years and defense attorney Erik Lombillo urged sentencing as a youthful offender, probation or a more lenient term for a teen mother ill-equipped to handle twin babies.
Reading from a probable cause affidavit, the judge detailed what occurred and why it wasn’t an isolated event, as Lombillo had argued. The affidavit said Bartrum woke up on Dec. 18, 2007, when her babies wouldn’t stop crying and she got upset.
“She threw a bottle with formula and hit (the daughter) on the head,” the judge read, adding that it caused a bump. “Tosha stated that she grabbed (the daughter’s) car seat and vigorously shook it, she then picked the daughter up and threw her onto the bed.”
The judge noted that she then gave her babies and paperwork to her younger sister, Courtney Burnett, saying she “couldn’t handle it anymore,” and then heard they’d been taken to a hospital. Hardt read aloud, noting that she’d admitted doing the same thing to her son’s car seat in the past and he had a black eye recently, but she’d been drinking that night so she’s unsure how he got it.
Bartrum pleaded no contest to aggravated child abuse, a first-degree felony punishable by up to 30 years in a state prison, and had left her sentence in the hands of the judge, who gave her credit for time served in the jail since her arrest on Jan. 3, 2008. Mead’s plea offer was for 10 years, which she’d turned down. The lowest term on her sentencing scoresheet was 6 1/2 years, considering the baby’s severe injuries.
A report by Investigator Frank Pilarski, of the Collier County Sheriff’s Office, says the baby was flown to Miami Children’s Hospital on Dec. 18, 2007, with two hematomas, an acute hematoma, bruising and a retinal injury. Witnesses said they saw a handprint on her face, bruises, and after she screamed, she cocked her head, her body got stiff and she “appeared to be dying.”
As Bartrum and her mother, Kimberly Burnett, who sat in court behind her, both cried, the judge warned Bartrum she couldn’t contact her child while in prison or during the 10 years of probation — not even by e-mail. Mead had played jailhouse phone calls between Bartrum and her mother to show proof they’d “plotted” to have her grandmother apply to adopt the babies and then they’d move to Indiana to be with them.
“You can’t send her a birthday card,” Hardt cautioned. “You can’t send her a Christmas present. Until that child is an adult, that child needs to have a normal environment. It seems she has loving parents.”
The daughter, who will turn 2 years old on Thursday with her twin brother are in a “medical foster home” in LaBelle, with a registered nurse and her husband, who can take care of medical problems if they crop up. The foster mother, Cathy Burley, testified however, that the child hadn’t had seizures, although a neurologist warned it was a possibility due to her head trauma.
Lombillo used Burley as a reluctant defense witness to show the judge the baby is doing well. Bartrum, his other defense witness, took deep breaths before she sobbed and apologized as she sat at the defense table in her orange jail jumpsuit. She’d quietly cried throughout most of the hearing and her eyes were swollen and red.
“I’d just like to say that I’m sorry,” Bartrum said, crying. “I’m sorry to my family. I’m sorry to my kids. No words can explain how it feels. I just want everyone to know that I’m sorry.”
Mead presented the jailhouse phone calls to support her argument that Bartrum needed a long sentence to prevent her from trying to see the baby, although she’d terminated her parental rights. In the phone calls, her mother’s conversation was filled with curses and reassurances to her daughter that her mother, Verna, would get the babies and they’d all move to Indiana. In some conversations, Bartrum bawled as her mother reassured her it appeared she’d soon get out of jail, where she’d been since her arrest.
On one tape, Burnett warned her daughter she couldn’t tell Lombillo about their plan and also added, “Lisa Mead cannot hear anything like that.”
Bartrum and her sister, Courtney, spent some of their childhood under the care of their grandmother and Courtney also has lost her children, Mead told the judge.
Mead also presented testimony by the child’s guardian ad litem, Joanne Wilson, a Florida Gulf Coast University genetics professor, who testified the babies were now in a good environment, doing well and she hoped they’d remain there.
“Do you believe if Kimberly Burnett and the rest of that clan had access to them they’d have the same environment?” Mead asked.
“I have concerns,” replied Wilson, who had listened to eight hours of curse-laden jailhouse phone calls as part of her review of the case.
Mead pushed for 10 years. “There’s just something wrong with someone who would do this,” Mead argued. “... My hope is that by putting her in prison the children will be 9 or 10 years old when she gets out and they will be set in their ways and her interference will be minimal.”
She pointed out it wasn’t an isolated incident and that the baby had a handprint on her head, two subdural hematomas, and her brother had a black eye and old bruises.
Lombillo argued that Bartrum wasn’t mature and even admitted in dependency court that she was ill-equipped to handle motherhood. He blamed the incident on alcohol and pills and sought a “downward departure” in sentencing — less than sentencing guidelines recommended. In addition to sentencing as a youthful offender, which carries a maximum of six years in a youth prison, he suggested a long period of probation, pointing out Bartrum had already spent 17 months in county jail, was remorseful, and had learned a lesson.
“This is just a sad case where she has lost her children forever,” Lombillo said, noting that she had no criminal record and celebrated her 20th birthday in jail.
The judge ruled the facts didn’t support Bartrum getting sentenced as a youthful offender, or getting a downward departure from sentencing guidelines. Lombillo filed a motion for a public defender for Bartrum’s appeal and Bartrum cried and hugged her mother before she was led off.
Mead said afterward, “I’m very happy with the sentence, just because I know the kids will be safe.”
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Comments » 25
ashleybaileykids writes:
I AGREE. CHILD ABUSE IS AWFUL!! ANYONE THAT CAN HARM THEIR OWN CHILDREN WILL DO EVEN MORE VIOLENT THINGS TO OTHERS. IT IS SAD WHEN A MOTHER OF ANY AGE CAN DO SUCH BAD THINGS TO THE BABIES THEY GAVE BIRTH TO. I AM GLAD SHE HAS A LONG TIME TO THINK ABOUT IT.
torah101 writes:
This is a real tragedy
I cannot tell you what to read because I've saturated the minds of contributors, so if you're in the same position as this young lady, people read my remark histories and you'll find all the help you need
nativeone writes:
101, for the first time you got a chuckle out of me.
Shalom
geecee827 writes:
Why didn't this dingbat realize she wasn't fit to be a mother and couldn't handle the responsibility before she got pregnant? Sounds like her mother was a real lowlife role model, too. Hope she is sterilized while in prison. That should be part of her sentencing, too. This woman is unfit to procreate and she has proved it.
nightranger writes:
Agreed she should do some time. So I am figuring based on this sentence that the Rivas kid who killed a young mother will probably get somewhere around 50 years in prison for killing a young mother. Let's see what the Collier County Criminal Justice system deals out to one of their own.
vikkim writes:
Shame on her. She does not deserve the children back. She was violent once, she will do it again.
Where is the Father of the children? Is he another local deadbeat?
Chester writes:
I guess being a single parent isn't such a great thing! All you young girls/women out there had better read this story!
brighteyes writes:
I only feel for the children. I was in orphanages and foster care for the first four years of my life back when they were not regulated by the State of Florida. I hope that for the children's sake, they will be allowed to be adopted by a wonderful family and never have to fear that this biological mother can come back on them and get the children back.
I have seen wonderful potential parents have to give the child back up (after years) because the drug addict (or whatever) biological mother pleads to get the child back and the court system agrees that the biological mother somehow has more rights to the child than the wonderful foster/potential parents. There is no easy answer to this problem. But I do believe if I was the drug addict mom and I got my act together, I would leave the child with the foster/potential parent and if I was still young enough,I would then have my own family, free of all the drug use. It's really wonderful today because adoptive families for the most part are receptive to the birth mothers becoming a part of the child's life, as long as the birth mother has cleaned her act up.
Very sad indeed.
LovesBS writes:
Lee County comes to Collier...
Sad
FreshFace writes:
I have to say that there is no excuse for what this young woman did. I can, however, understand her frustration and I think intensive therapy and anger management may have helped her more than being locked up with murderers, drug dealers etc. You see....she will fall into their world and become even worse.
She should totally never see her kids again. It's a shame this has happened.
etcetcetc writes:
Disgusting...another lowlife family who doesn't believe in birth control, abortion, or adoption, but DOES believe in drinking, drugs, and child abuse. I'm even more disgusted at this girl's mother, although "mother" is a loose term considering what she raised.
Sorry, I was drinking and taking pills when I beat my infant child...is that really a viable excuse? Her age means NOTHING. If she's old enough to have the babies and she's allowed to leave the hospital with them to (presumably) raise them, then using her age should not be any kind of defense when she commits a crime against them.
Wonder if they'll extend the no contact order to the scheming grandma?
Lucifer writes:
Give her the same consideration that she gave her kids. Get drunk, take pills, and beat her just like she did to them.
blefebvre writes:
Teenage mother that was overwhelmed. It was noted in the article that she had no criminal history. Instead of just sticking her in jail I would hope that she is getting help with anger management and some counseling, afterall she can still have more babies in the future.
MrMeToo writes:
(are in a medical foster home with Cathy Burley in LaBelle)
Wow!
Naples Daily News messed up again! Foster Parent's identity is supposed to be confidential... For the safety of the children, as well as the foster parents. That kind of info should never be released.
Max_Headroom writes:
Where is the sperm donor of the children?
It should be brought up on charges also.
strudelbaby writes:
MrMeToo: Once something goes into the courtroom, it becomes public record.
babbas writes:
Intelligence plays a factor in whether or not people use birth control.
Ultimately, mankind will destroy itself due to overbreeding.
AlienTaxPayer writes:
From reading the comments above I take it that none of you have ever lost your temper with your children?. Anger management classes and real help would be a darn sight cheaper for the taxpayers than jail time.
EdEstero writes:
Absolutely gross.... I totally agree with babbas #18.. In addition, I think this country needs to impliment a nuetering and spaying program for failures like this Tosha "Tantrum" Bartrum and her mother. We also need to start figuring out a way to raise both the IQ, and the Emotional IQ of our youth before this country collapes...
chicklet writes:
I would say to reduce her jail time by half - only if she agrees to voluntary sterilization. This woman should never have another child. She will never possess the skills required to be a good parent. She has no family support system that would come close to helping her learn how to be a good parent. Unfortunately there are many like her that run free, commit the same kinds of heinous crimes that she has, have no business bringing children into this world... and they are having many children that will be identical clones of themselves.
justme writes:
Funny, how a dirty old man can sexually molest a child and doesn't even get this long of a sentence!!!!!
I agree that she is one messed up girl. But, a mother to young kids myself, I know how stressful being a mom can be. This young girl is a mom to TWINS, just a kid herself, and look at her mom's own history! This is a perfect chance to stop the cycle through education!
We should have a foster system of sorts for young adults and their kids... Assign the mother to go live with a GOOD family for three years (along with her kids), and use the money that would have been used for her imprisonment to pay the family for being her foster family.
Her sitting in jail is going to do absolutely nothing for her, except maybe teach her how to be even more deviant.
naplesred writes:
#21 - justme, I'm not sure how the logistics would be worked out, but I like the concept. Sounds like a good idea.
GladILeft writes:
I was a mature mom in my 30s in a stable marriage with close-by grandparents when I had twins. It's still mind-numbingly difficult even under the best of circumstances. Being a teenage single mother with twins is a brutal set of circumstances.
It's unfortunate that this girl felt she had nowhere to turn for help. There is so much wrong with this story. The mother failed the daughter, the daughter failed her children, but we all fail as a society, really, when things like this are allowed to happen. Certainly SOMEONE in her life knew she was struggling. Family, babies' father, neighbors, friends, pediatrician, HRS...anyone?
What she did was awful, no arguments there. What a sad ending for everyone concerned.
hockeyfreak writes:
Agree with geecee827 #4 post... chemical sterilization for this one. Only way to insure it doesn't happen again, especially since she'll probably find a way to have 'a relationship' with one of the corrections officers in whatever place she gets sent too, and wind up in the same dang boat.
grouper25 writes:
Looks like one less Acorn worker.
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